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He had me swear on my bible any time any place and any way he wanted after my return from that trip. I would be a willing wife and travel companion We had talked in Rome about the best vacation choice for my husband was seven months in the future starting after the down week and any three weeks until February 14th, I arrived with him intending to take off that morning on a western road trip wherever his nose pointed. I felt like a gun was at my head. I tried to say we could go someplace nice and warn like st Criox, Barbados Hawaii, we did not have to kill other hopes the next three weeks He had already researched that time. Found getting reservations then was next to impossible for any thing like I suggested Europe to cold in the winter his knees after air assault were to bad to ski.. So I even suggested driving to Vegas, Southern Callifornia. Texas or Florida, He said you can drive it I don't want to Ice scat across country or get caught in a winter storm and why did he ever want to go to vegas or Florida. I knew he hated both. So it was his way or the highway, It was the highway being sent home to my mothers for 2 years in Virginia. His father had a court order slapped on him to work all offered hours, and when the hearing for dissolution came up August 2 years latter his petition was tossed out because he could not make provisions for my bi polar, almost 3000000 up front to the state. I was returned to the same defiance, the same problems as before until the Brain surgery in 2001, After that his attitude went totally south, In October he decided he was taking a prestige position with his 25 years, I went hat in hand like other times and this time promised a normal marriage no more sex refusal, He could have the vacations and holiday as well as the weekends he wanted after 20 years home, he could wait a few more weeks for another job bid in the new plant He just needed to back off the prestige position for the commissioners son.

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I had forced my husband into a sexless marriage that he could not leave for decades. 3.1 decades to be exact, Now there has been so much happen in the last year all I wish for is a peaceful loving husband like he should have been, The family and I thought that before things were over he would do exactly as instructed by us and other people, but that’s not the way things came down, he became defiant, mean, and generally does not do anything he is told to do any longer, He thinks that for three decades we used him for a chump as he puts it. when this started it was simply as a way to get him eased back into the community without causing much disruption in other peoples life especially since he came home from the navy with so much acquired seniority on his job, He could take shifts, jobs, vacation slots, take or refuse holiday work and weekends. With so many people that had been hired in the last three years while he was away this presented a major problem between the lives that were in sort of stability and what my husband wanted with his acquired seniority. So his father and other people came to me to ask my help in forcing my husband not to use his seniority rights. to get the shifts, jobs and days off he wanted. and the only way I had to do this was promise a future when he was able to have the life he wanted with me if he would just be quiet let things really be stable and not cause any one trouble. Please just ease back into the way things were. this was a mistake on my part, because things never did get stable at the place he worked there was always someone his father and his friends considered more deserving of time off, a holiday off or needing to be at a son or daughters game on a weekend, It took two years for my husband before he wanted some of these things for himself, he wanted time with me, he wanted what was basically a life besides working twelve hours a day and sixteen on holidays, there were some very serious arguments between his father him and myself where I would extend the promise for another period into the future if he would just please for me do what was wanted from him. After a while this became habit, then he developed a brain tumor, every thing change july 31 2001 when they drilled a hole to the center of his head to get a brain tumor, After that everything was defiance and even armed force to get him to do what others wanted of him after he took a job with his seniority. The powers that be even had me offer the promise of normalizing our marriage if he would just back down, He said I could drop dead, I used that cry wolf before and he was not taking the bait this time. I admit the drop dead comment hurt, but it was the night that the list for the job was coming down that things became dangerous, all peaceful methods of getting him to remove his name from the job had been exhausted, there was nothing that he would accept as a compromise, nothing he would take in make up to stay where he was so a decision was arrived at by his father and others he needed a lesson in humility, I was told that I should call the police after the first punch landed, when it landed I watched my husband place four men in critical care in under a minute, my neighbors called the police and emergency services after what my husband did, I was stunned but he came to the door that I had locked and he tore it out frame and all, came in and told me if I ever locked him out to be beat upon again I would get the same as the four on the porch.. After that night I refused because I was afraid of him,. Last year was a watershed year. He discovered me in an affair he just about killed the man he discovered me with after an attempt at humiliation by the man I was with, then after two weeks in a stress center he was released back home , The timing was bad, I was going to a political funding dinner with a friend of his fathers I had know for years. I was informed I was not going, I was informed that since he paid for the roof over my head. the food on my table, the cloths on my back, the nice things I had, my medical. and my transportation, I was going to start being a wife, He was not going to even try negotiation, it was his way. I begged please I promise to meet any where you want after the event. this is a favor for your father and his best friend. My husband said as of now you owe 21 years of marriage payable starting tonight. I took off for the door and he said I paid for the dress to it stays as he ripped it off me, I knew there was not any way to stop him then, he took me on the floor even as I tried one more time by saying please not like this, We turned what was thoughtful nice man into a rampaging devil or angle on a mission of revenge, It was not love it was rage, need , denial and anger, His fathers friend just about went through his fathers car grill when he arrived after my husband through him off the porch face first into a cement driveway. The last year has been a year where my husband did decide his father does not have a thing to say in our life, His father slapped my husband on memorial day for being what my father in law said was disrespectful to his friends after my husband decided first he was not vacating his own home for the cookout that day. the my husband refused to allow his fathers best friend to accompany me to a club after words. my husband took the reservation ticket his father made for myself and his friend. Made the man run for his life. and informed everyone the only escort I was allowed is my husband from that day on, His father slapped my husband and He got a look I had seen two times before right before destroying peoples bodies, He ball his fist, his father was crying because he broke two fingers with the slap and then we all saw his father fly across the kitchen, I am surprised his neck was not broken he was hit so hard with a backhand from my husband, there was only one more attempt at backing my husband down, he warned his father and his two friends if he was left standing he would make sure they hurt by the end of the day for holding him at bay with pistols if they did not put him down, I went along to stop things from happening, My husband did not show any mercy when he appeared at a public dinner and laid there faces open to the jaw bone with his oak and peuter cane, Said I told you; you would hurt Then he took the tip of his can without the rubber tip pushed his father back in his chair with it and If he was not cuffed by the police I think he was going to run his father through with it My husband had proof they started things a half hour before, he had recorded everything on his security cam. His father considered the matter done since they left him standing. he did not expect he would air family problems in public. I knew that now there was not anything my husband would not do to prevent his rights from being taken. And that includes taking everything public, We have both gone into a form of exile for me, Moved 1200 miles west into a remote area, His father writes that he can’t take anything else from his oldest son , he says he has cause so much legal trouble for himself and others that they just want an end to their association with my husband. His mother s going to leave his father for what she found out happened over the years, His sister says that friends are not even going any where near his father, and his sister also feels he overstepped his rights with my husband. I just try and be the mouse in the corner now. I don’t want any more trouble, I have talked to my husbands councilors. they said that the brain surgery and the Spinal fusion from MRSA in his spin was enough stress for one life, but as a wife and family we just would not let up, they say that my husband is PTSD effective, He will not recover, It is best if the stress was eliminated on him. Is there any way to solve the dilemma that I find myself in now, because I don’t see any way to keep anyone happy any more without setting my husband off.

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